When learning about how to finger yourself it’s all about good imagination and creativity. You also will need to have privacy, comfortable spot and some time on your hands.
The Setting
Probably the most comfortable and private spot would be your bedroom, make sure no one is there to disturb you (unless it is to join you!), nothing worse than somebody calling for you when you are in the middle of pleasuring yourself. If you have a roomate, then just wait for him or her to leave before starting. However, be sure that they won’t be coming back anytime soon.
Getting a lock for your door in this situation would be perfect, as you can let your mind wander without worrying about someone barging in. If you are loud, try turning on some music to drowned out the noise.
How to Finger Yourself
Lie on your back, naked or loosely clothed. You could go the extra mile and foster a romantic environment, light some candles and dim the lights, have a little champagne and nice music to get you in the mood. Now close your eyes and let your imagination run.
While doing that, start touching yourself. Make sounds and let your inhibitions go. With a water-based lubrication, wet yourself and start rubbing your vulva. Do this with your palm resting on your mons or mound, start your way outside lightly and slowly work your way towards the clitoris. Use circular motions slowly increasing rhythm and pressure. Be creative with this process. When you are wet enough you can slowly start to insert your finger inside you and stimulate your G-spot, which is located along the underside of your belly inside the vaginal canal; it’ll feel like the roof of your mouth.
Go into a fantasy as you rhythmically move your finger up and down and take other distractions out of your mind. You can use your other hand to touch your breasts or clitoris where there are many nerves for stimulation to heighten the excitement. Tilt your head back and relax as the feeling takes over your body. Breathe deeply, and as you exhale speed up your finger movements for a second. Learn what feels good for your body and over time fingering yourself will become an exciting and pleasurable escape from reality.
Vibrators
To help you out, you may want to pick up a personal vibrator. For example the IRIS personal vibrator is a good choice, but there are many others on the market of similar quality. This particular vibrator is silky smooth, skillful and very powerful in giving you pleasure. It is 8.7 inches long with girth that will feel most ideal. It has two balanced engines and is powerful but quiet. The great thing about this is you have 5 stimulation modes, so you have total control of the kind of pleasure that you want. It’s your choice if you want it to stimulate internally or externally, either will feel great. Also it is made of top quality silicone so it really feels silky smooth; add great amounts of lubrication before inserting to really have the best time.
I recommend to look at Amazon.com and look at other types of vibrators as well. Make sure to read reviews in order to get a good overall impression of the unit.